"To curse the faith when wronged by it is like saying prayers when blessed by [them]." - Levantine proverb
Just real quick...got a sad friend, a depressed friend, a lonely friend...and my Bishop to contend with...but I was always taught, most properly, that I should always mind my P's & Q's.
I never figured out what P's & Q's meant until my Minister told me to think very hard before I make the most serious decision of my life: Making my confirmation to the Church. "Mind your PROMISES AND Questions..." Promises I make...and mind what I question...just what I'm thinking about...just remembering today. After all, I was already sure, God is real.